“I hope” vs “I don't want”












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One says from bottom of his heart,




I don't want him to be humiliated because of me.

I hope that he will not be humiliated because of me.




Until this day, I thought "I don't want" makes more sense, because it shows a more stronger will.



But I then I was told it sounds more native to say "I hope"...
Now I'm confused...










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    Both are acceptable, but 'I hope that...' is more positive because it describes a desirable situation (that he does not feel humiliated). It could be argued that 'I don't want...' implies that you are actively trying to prevent the humiliation.
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One says from bottom of his heart,




I don't want him to be humiliated because of me.

I hope that he will not be humiliated because of me.




Until this day, I thought "I don't want" makes more sense, because it shows a more stronger will.



But I then I was told it sounds more native to say "I hope"...
Now I'm confused...










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    Both are acceptable, but 'I hope that...' is more positive because it describes a desirable situation (that he does not feel humiliated). It could be argued that 'I don't want...' implies that you are actively trying to prevent the humiliation.
    – Kate Bunting
    10 hours ago














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One says from bottom of his heart,




I don't want him to be humiliated because of me.

I hope that he will not be humiliated because of me.




Until this day, I thought "I don't want" makes more sense, because it shows a more stronger will.



But I then I was told it sounds more native to say "I hope"...
Now I'm confused...










share|improve this question















One says from bottom of his heart,




I don't want him to be humiliated because of me.

I hope that he will not be humiliated because of me.




Until this day, I thought "I don't want" makes more sense, because it shows a more stronger will.



But I then I was told it sounds more native to say "I hope"...
Now I'm confused...







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    Both are acceptable, but 'I hope that...' is more positive because it describes a desirable situation (that he does not feel humiliated). It could be argued that 'I don't want...' implies that you are actively trying to prevent the humiliation.
    – Kate Bunting
    10 hours ago














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    Both are acceptable, but 'I hope that...' is more positive because it describes a desirable situation (that he does not feel humiliated). It could be argued that 'I don't want...' implies that you are actively trying to prevent the humiliation.
    – Kate Bunting
    10 hours ago








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Both are acceptable, but 'I hope that...' is more positive because it describes a desirable situation (that he does not feel humiliated). It could be argued that 'I don't want...' implies that you are actively trying to prevent the humiliation.
– Kate Bunting
10 hours ago




Both are acceptable, but 'I hope that...' is more positive because it describes a desirable situation (that he does not feel humiliated). It could be argued that 'I don't want...' implies that you are actively trying to prevent the humiliation.
– Kate Bunting
10 hours ago















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