What do you call the behavior of a person who stubbornly or sarcastically disbelieves your statements?
E.g. I’m in an argument with a friend and I make a strong personal point about my self, or intention and she just says “uh huh” or “right” or "whatever".
Me: “I did it because I want better for you”
Her: “yeah, uh huh.”
Basically interjecting disbelief talk backs throughout my argument which is frustrating because I want her to hear and accept what I’m saying but she just pushes away with anger and distrust.
What word would you call that person’s behavior or attitude ?
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E.g. I’m in an argument with a friend and I make a strong personal point about my self, or intention and she just says “uh huh” or “right” or "whatever".
Me: “I did it because I want better for you”
Her: “yeah, uh huh.”
Basically interjecting disbelief talk backs throughout my argument which is frustrating because I want her to hear and accept what I’m saying but she just pushes away with anger and distrust.
What word would you call that person’s behavior or attitude ?
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Do you have other examples? My first inclination on hearing "I did it for you" as an explanation of behavior that needs explaining is always disbelief, so for your existing example I'd be inclined to call the other person "smart" or "intuitive" or "normal".
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E.g. I’m in an argument with a friend and I make a strong personal point about my self, or intention and she just says “uh huh” or “right” or "whatever".
Me: “I did it because I want better for you”
Her: “yeah, uh huh.”
Basically interjecting disbelief talk backs throughout my argument which is frustrating because I want her to hear and accept what I’m saying but she just pushes away with anger and distrust.
What word would you call that person’s behavior or attitude ?
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E.g. I’m in an argument with a friend and I make a strong personal point about my self, or intention and she just says “uh huh” or “right” or "whatever".
Me: “I did it because I want better for you”
Her: “yeah, uh huh.”
Basically interjecting disbelief talk backs throughout my argument which is frustrating because I want her to hear and accept what I’m saying but she just pushes away with anger and distrust.
What word would you call that person’s behavior or attitude ?
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Do you have other examples? My first inclination on hearing "I did it for you" as an explanation of behavior that needs explaining is always disbelief, so for your existing example I'd be inclined to call the other person "smart" or "intuitive" or "normal".
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Do you have other examples? My first inclination on hearing "I did it for you" as an explanation of behavior that needs explaining is always disbelief, so for your existing example I'd be inclined to call the other person "smart" or "intuitive" or "normal".
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Do you have other examples? My first inclination on hearing "I did it for you" as an explanation of behavior that needs explaining is always disbelief, so for your existing example I'd be inclined to call the other person "smart" or "intuitive" or "normal".
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Do you have other examples? My first inclination on hearing "I did it for you" as an explanation of behavior that needs explaining is always disbelief, so for your existing example I'd be inclined to call the other person "smart" or "intuitive" or "normal".
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The person you described is being dismissive with you.
- Serving to dismiss.
- Showing indifference or disregard: a dismissive shrug.
I recommend you avoid this person, if that is possible. If that is not possible, at least limit your interaction with her or him. Sometimes, however, confronting the person in a calm and reasoned way can "clear the air" and perhaps pave the way for a healthier relationship.
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I think that possible words that you are searching for in the first situation are mocking or condescending.
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Depending on exactly how it is said, the word you are seeking may contempt, scorn, disdain, or derision.
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They are mirroring.
The reply shows they think your statement is insincere.
They are mirroring you with an equally insincere response.
When mirroring, the intent is to trigger in you the same (dismissed, insulted) reaction they felt hearing your statement.
Alternately they are "calling your bluff" by accepting superficially, in word-only, while clearly signaling the opposite. They are mirroring a (false) statement with an equally (false) acceptance.
Nothing has changed in the positions of the argument. The explanation is being deflected. Communication is breaking down. Change communication tactics or step away.
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The person you described is being dismissive with you.
- Serving to dismiss.
- Showing indifference or disregard: a dismissive shrug.
I recommend you avoid this person, if that is possible. If that is not possible, at least limit your interaction with her or him. Sometimes, however, confronting the person in a calm and reasoned way can "clear the air" and perhaps pave the way for a healthier relationship.
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The person you described is being dismissive with you.
- Serving to dismiss.
- Showing indifference or disregard: a dismissive shrug.
I recommend you avoid this person, if that is possible. If that is not possible, at least limit your interaction with her or him. Sometimes, however, confronting the person in a calm and reasoned way can "clear the air" and perhaps pave the way for a healthier relationship.
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The person you described is being dismissive with you.
- Serving to dismiss.
- Showing indifference or disregard: a dismissive shrug.
I recommend you avoid this person, if that is possible. If that is not possible, at least limit your interaction with her or him. Sometimes, however, confronting the person in a calm and reasoned way can "clear the air" and perhaps pave the way for a healthier relationship.
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The person you described is being dismissive with you.
- Serving to dismiss.
- Showing indifference or disregard: a dismissive shrug.
I recommend you avoid this person, if that is possible. If that is not possible, at least limit your interaction with her or him. Sometimes, however, confronting the person in a calm and reasoned way can "clear the air" and perhaps pave the way for a healthier relationship.
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I think that possible words that you are searching for in the first situation are mocking or condescending.
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Depending on exactly how it is said, the word you are seeking may contempt, scorn, disdain, or derision.
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Depending on exactly how it is said, the word you are seeking may contempt, scorn, disdain, or derision.
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Depending on exactly how it is said, the word you are seeking may contempt, scorn, disdain, or derision.
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Depending on exactly how it is said, the word you are seeking may contempt, scorn, disdain, or derision.
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They are mirroring.
The reply shows they think your statement is insincere.
They are mirroring you with an equally insincere response.
When mirroring, the intent is to trigger in you the same (dismissed, insulted) reaction they felt hearing your statement.
Alternately they are "calling your bluff" by accepting superficially, in word-only, while clearly signaling the opposite. They are mirroring a (false) statement with an equally (false) acceptance.
Nothing has changed in the positions of the argument. The explanation is being deflected. Communication is breaking down. Change communication tactics or step away.
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They are mirroring.
The reply shows they think your statement is insincere.
They are mirroring you with an equally insincere response.
When mirroring, the intent is to trigger in you the same (dismissed, insulted) reaction they felt hearing your statement.
Alternately they are "calling your bluff" by accepting superficially, in word-only, while clearly signaling the opposite. They are mirroring a (false) statement with an equally (false) acceptance.
Nothing has changed in the positions of the argument. The explanation is being deflected. Communication is breaking down. Change communication tactics or step away.
answered 9 hours ago
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They are mirroring.
The reply shows they think your statement is insincere.
They are mirroring you with an equally insincere response.
When mirroring, the intent is to trigger in you the same (dismissed, insulted) reaction they felt hearing your statement.
Alternately they are "calling your bluff" by accepting superficially, in word-only, while clearly signaling the opposite. They are mirroring a (false) statement with an equally (false) acceptance.
Nothing has changed in the positions of the argument. The explanation is being deflected. Communication is breaking down. Change communication tactics or step away.
answered 9 hours ago
wetcircuit
950211
They are mirroring.
The reply shows they think your statement is insincere.
They are mirroring you with an equally insincere response.
When mirroring, the intent is to trigger in you the same (dismissed, insulted) reaction they felt hearing your statement.
Alternately they are "calling your bluff" by accepting superficially, in word-only, while clearly signaling the opposite. They are mirroring a (false) statement with an equally (false) acceptance.
Nothing has changed in the positions of the argument. The explanation is being deflected. Communication is breaking down. Change communication tactics or step away.
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Do you have other examples? My first inclination on hearing "I did it for you" as an explanation of behavior that needs explaining is always disbelief, so for your existing example I'd be inclined to call the other person "smart" or "intuitive" or "normal".
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